Everyone would respond positively to this question. However, it is true that your partner really loves you. If he or she did not love you, they would not have married you in the first place. During your courtship period, you assessed the partner and made a choice to marry him or her. You know, even though there are other reasons that can make you accept the decision, love must have been the first factor.

If you visit marriage counselors, they would not cheat you. They would tell you that you need to first of all show love for your partner and they would reciprocate. You cannot accept love where you do not show it. Remember though that love is not just about gifts and material things. It also involves feelings.

What words do you use to show that you care for your partner? Are they harsh or sweet? The words that you use need to be special and sweet. Words can move a mountain. Remember that words can build or destroy. You have to be careful in choosing your words so that you never hurt your partner. In couple or marriage counseling, you are advised never to shout at your partner.

In marriage, sometimes there can be children. These children would be learning from you. You would need to be sure about what they are seeing and learning from your relationship. The manner in which you handle your problems is important.